A trauma-informed guide to reclaiming your power after narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and stalking.
Category: Becoming
The in-between moments that shape who we are — heartbreaks, healing, awakenings, and everything that doesn’t make it to the highlight reel. This is where I write from the heart — the unfiltered, still-figuring-it-out parts of the journey. Because becoming “her” isn’t a destination… it’s a story that keeps unfolding.
A Real Life Stalker Story: Fear Doesn’t Live Here Anymore (Part 2)
If you haven’t read my first post about what happened — the horror story that started it all — you can read it here. Trigger Warning: This post discusses themes of stalking, psychological abuse, revenge porn, suicide threats, and firearms for self-defense. Please prioritize your mental health and proceed with care. 🔁 The Plot Twist…
A Real Life Stalker Story: My Worst Nightmare Became My Wake-Up Call (Part 1)
Trigger warning: This is a true story about my experience with a stalker. It includes mentions of domestic abuse, manipulation, threats, homicide-suicide, and violence. It’s not an easy read, but it’s a real one. I’m sharing what it felt like to survive something I never thought I’d experience — in case my story helps someone…
Adulting Is Realizing That No One Knows What the F*ck They’re Doing
Some people are just better at pretending. I used to think everyone else had it figured out — the careers, the relationships, the five-year plans. Meanwhile, I was somewhere between a healing phase, a travel phase, and a “what is the purpose of any of this?” phase. But the truth is, I think most of…