The in-between moments that shape who we are — heartbreaks, healing, awakenings, and everything that doesn’t make it to the highlight reel. This is where I write from the heart — the unfiltered, still-figuring-it-out parts of the journey. Because becoming “her” isn’t a destination… it’s a story that keeps unfolding.
One of the hardest things you’ll ever do is let go of someone you still have so much love and hope for. It requires a deep level of self-awareness, maturity and acceptance to do what’s right — even when it hurts, even when your heart wants to hold on. There’s a destabilizing, soul-crushing kind of heartbreak…
If this year taught me anything, it’s this: stop expecting you from other people. Not everyone carries the same heart, the same intentions, or the same capacity as you do.People don’t meet you at your level. They meet you at theirs.And that’s not a bad thing. It’s just human. For a long time, I moved…
A trauma-informed guide to reclaiming your power after narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and stalking.
If you haven’t read my first post about what happened — the horror story that started it all — you can read it here. Trigger Warning: This post discusses themes of stalking, psychological abuse, revenge porn, suicide threats, and firearms for self-defense. Please prioritize your mental health and proceed with care. 🔁 The Plot Twist…
Trigger warning: This is a true story about my experience with a stalker. It includes mentions of domestic abuse, manipulation, threats, homicide-suicide, and violence. It’s not an easy read, but it’s a real one. I’m sharing what it felt like to survive something I never thought I’d experience — in case my story helps someone…
Some people are just better at pretending. I used to think everyone else had it figured out — the careers, the relationships, the five-year plans. Meanwhile, I was somewhere between a healing phase, a travel phase, and a “what is the purpose of any of this?” phase. But the truth is, I think most of…